something a friend of mine said to me this past wkend has been dancing in my head. we debate quite frequently our friendship. I absolutly love this person and i know he love me, but he does not understand why i consider him a friend. he tends to have poor self esteem.
this is what i have to say to all his doubts: a friend is more than doing... a friend is also and mostly being. someone who is there for you, someone who will talk to you when you need it, for 6 min or 6 hrs. or just be there with you w/o saying a word, just showing their support. someone who you enjoy spending time with and who enjoys spending time with you. friends don't have to do anything, they just have to be. be there for eachother, be supportive of one another, be able to love and be loved... etc.
although a result of being a friend most of the time is that you want to do things for those you love and cherish, it is not the reason you are friends in the first place.
Please know I love you, I love all my friends.
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